Tribute to Dad

Tom's dad, that is. One of the best men around.

This picture was taken in 1942 when Bud was 21 years old. Bud was always active in one sport or another. I remember most how he loved to play golf. Tom remembers how his dad often coached their teams, and was a referee for many games. One of the teams Bud coached (he was assistant coach) went to the Little League World Series in 1954. One of his players was Kenny Hubbs. Bud was able to film the trip.

Bud (pictured in the center) was unable to serve a mission because of the war. His service was in the navy during World War 2. He was stationed in New Caladonia. We say he was the single most powerful man in the navy...because he had control of the liquor stores on base. He was a hero, and helped save lives on at least one occasion. He was injured during that experience and lived with the after-affects the rest of his life.

Bud taught elementary school for many, many years. Also, he was on the PE team that traveled between the different elementary schools. He developed what is called "Movement Exploration" which is a teaching method for elementary PE teachers. His oldest daughter uses many of the principles today in her elementary PE classes. Bud was well loved as a teacher and as a coach.

Bud's youngest children were born when he was in his 50's. Now at the age of 87, his youngest child (shown in this picture) is 34 years old. There are 6 living children: Christi, Dave, Tom, Ken, Eric and Carolyn. Bud was always very supportive of his children in whatever activity they chose to do. Three of the boys served missions which Bud whole-heartedly supported. Three of the children have graduated from college. Five of the children have married in the temple. As an in-law I have felt the same support and encouragement from Bud.

Bud was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2003. Tom says that his dad has been having Saturday every day since then. We have learned to live in the moment with Bud, and to enjoy the time we have with him even if it is tripping down memory lane or repeating the same thing over and over and over.


The years have taken their toll. The Alzheimers has progressed and he is experiencing the challenges of aging physically. Bud has been cheerful, happy, and considerate of his wife, Janet the entire time. Last week he offically entered the wandering stage by leaving his apartment at 2 am and telling the night guard that he was going to work. This morning Bud suffered a massive stroke. The doctors say he has 25% chance of surviving.


So now it is a waiting game. Will he survive and have to enter the VA nursing home or will Heavenly Father take him home? Whatever it is, we trust the Lord and know it will work out for the best.


I love you, Dad! Thanks for your encouragement, acceptance and love. See you soon.